What if I’m really nervous during my session?

I know how you feel! I once had my first professional cuddle session. It’s completely expected and ok for you to be nervous. It might take a little while for your nervous system to settle and I’m here to guide you and to support whatever feelings come up. Laughter, tears, all of it, can surface during a session. It is all welcome.

Why do you need a copy of my ID?

Professional cuddlers take many safety precautions before entering an intimate, even though platonic, space with a client. A copy of your ID is a part of creating a safe container. Cuddlers also have what’s called a “safety buddy”. My buddy will expect to hear from me after each session is supposed to end.

If we enjoy our sessions, can we become friends?

Great question! During a cuddle session, or throughout many cuddle sessions, we will probably form a very special connection. Cuddling does release oxytocin after all (the bonding hormone)! That being said, this is a professional service and our connection stays in our session’s container. Communication between sessions is limited to scheduling and logistics. I may check on you post-session for a brief update.

How do you handle if a client gets… you know…

I think I know what you mean. Arousal is a very natural human reaction to close contact and the release of cuddle hormones. To create our safe container we commit to not pursuing, or sustaining, an erotically charged energy. If it happens, we ask to shift positions, or take a break apart. The space also has pillows that can be used as a barrier in certain positions. There is no need to feel shamed about arousal as long as we handle off-limit energies quickly and respectfully.

What kind of people seek out a professional cuddler?

All kinds! Some people don’t have access to touch for a variety of reasons. Touch is an important, if not essential, human need. There is nothing “weird” about seeking out a professional to provide nurturing and supportive platonic touch. Clients may be touch starved due to life circumstances. Some may have past touch trauma, gender dysphoria, or body dysmorphia and want a professional environment in which to safely explore touch. A client once had a goal of being an active participant in their life instead of a passive observer and we worked towards that goal by finding their ability to voice their own wants/needs. A client may be on the asexual spectrum and crave relaxing into platonic cuddles knowing their is no expectation or potential for escalation. All persons, regardless of gender identity, sexual orientation, race, nationality, size, and ability are welcome!

I still don’t want people to know I go to a professional cuddler.

Although professional cuddling is not mental health or medical care, your client status (and anything you experience or share) is still kept confidential. If I see you out about town, I will not approach you. You may disclose that you are a client, and you may greet me in public, but that is entirely your choice.